Even if you’re not the same age as me, I think many of you will recognize that there are patterns in our lives by the decade.  Although our trajectories were different, when I look back, we were all basically doing the same thing. Kind of like parallel play in preschool, throughout my life, the people I surrounded myself with were hitting the same big life landmarks as I was. In my twenties, it was all about adulting – college, grad school or getting a job. Writing a resume, getting an internship, working long hours, and staying out late. The world was our stage.  And somehow mixed into all of this…